Should You Say "I Do" to an Unplugged Ceremony?
What is an Unplugged Ceremony?
An Unplugged Ceremony means asking family and friends to down their phones, tablets, video recorders, and cameras for the wedding ceremony. This means no photos, Insta stories, or social media updates while you say “I Do”! Guests are welcome to snap photos and record videos the rest of the day, just not during the ceremony.
Reasons to Go Unplugged
Elevate your Photos
A device-free ceremony can help your photographer make your professional photos even more beautiful. It lets them capture shots from all angles without having to avoid obstructions. Plus, in the background of your images, you will see the full emotion and expressions of your guests without a device hiding their face.
Be Present
We all get caught up in capturing the perfect shot of something special. Sometimes, we’re so focused on our devices we forget to be fully present in the moment. Asking guests to put down their phones and tablets ensures they’re able to soak up all the emotions of the occasion.
Share your Own Updates
If you don’t like the idea of being tagged in photos and posts before you’ve had a chance to share updates, an Unplugged Ceremony is the perfect solution. You may prefer to share your own Wedding Day announcement first on social media addressed to those who were not able to make it so they feel included.
How to Have an Unplugged Ceremony
Make a Sign
A cute, customized sign displayed at the entrance to your ceremony venue is the perfect way to let guests know you'd like them to down their devices. Ensure the wording is clear that this is not optional, while remaining a welcoming tone.
Have an Announcement
Nominate a member of your bridal party or ask your officiant to make a kind reminder before the ceremony begins. Just before the bride arrives, all guests will be seated in place, so this is a great opportunity to politely get everyone’s attention.
Share Professional Photos
Reassure your guests that you’ll be sharing your professional photos online so that they’ll still be able to have beautiful reminders of the ceremony. Plus, during the reception they are welcome to enjoy taking snaps.
"I like the idea, but I'm worried my guests won't. Is there a compromise?"
Yes! If you’re not prepared to go fully Unplugged, there is a way to have the best of both worlds. Let guests know you would like them to down their devices until after you have finished saying your vows, but that they will have an opportunity to take photos before you walk back down the aisle. After saying your “I dos” while still at the altar, allow your guests a designated moment to snap their own shots. Make sure you limit this to no more than a couple of minutes to keep your ceremony running on time.
